But whereas in romantic love, the lover is often less critical and judgmental regarding the loved person, it is more likely that in the context of hate, the hater may want to exercise judgment in calculating moves to harm, injure or otherwise exact revenge. So: Not only does hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, but once she hates you, she's thinking a whole lot more clearly.
The lesson here is not, of course, to feel free to hate people you used to love. It is simply to be kind and gentle with yourself if you do notice those kinds of feelings arising.
There are lots of ways to stuff down distressing feelings: eating Oreos, watching Netflix, over-exercising, playing video games, even working. Yet that's what many psychologists not to mention mystics will tell you actually helps you move through and past them, so you can let go and move on. If they're that linked in the brain, then it doesn't just work one way around.
If you can go quickly from love to hate, then you can also go from hate to love. There's also self-love.
Love of nature. Love of humanity. Is it too much to ask for something real, pure and sincere? You being indifferent already says it all. Whatever happened along the way, I hope you just had the guts to tell me.
And next time, please do not deprive someone of that. Closure leads to clarity, and clarity lightens a heavy heart.
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