Compassion is important when cancer strikes a family member or friend. But you can offer practical support, too, as they navigate doctors, tests and procedures. Your family member or best friend has been diagnosed with cancer. Life, as you know it, has forever changed. Cleveland Clinic is a non-profit academic medical center. Advertising on our site helps support our mission.
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Cancer patients ride an emotional roller coaster as they navigate doctors, tests and procedures. What should you know in order to be most helpful to them? Chemotherapy , radiation , surgery — no cancer treatment is fun. Hair loss, nausea, skin and body changes, and dry mouth cause real distress.
Urge your loved one to tell the oncologist promptly about pain , nausea, vomiting, numbness or tingling. We now know chemotherapy affects short-term memory, which triggers great anxiety. Remind your loved one to stay in the moment by breathing deeply. Relaxing the mind will ease memory retrieval. Games like chess and Sudoku can also exercise the mental muscles. A warm blanket will keep your loved one cozy in the chilly chemotherapy room. Help them while away the hours by contributing an engrossing book, some great music or a binge-worthy show to their chemo bag.
Online message boards also bring cancer survivors together. Some old stigmas associated with cancer still exist. Your friends may wonder if your cancer is contagious.
Co-workers may doubt you're healthy enough to do your job, and some may withdraw for fear of saying the wrong thing. Many people will have questions and concerns. Determine how you'll deal with others' behaviors toward you. By and large, others will take their cues from you. Remind friends that even if cancer has been a frightening part of your life, it shouldn't make them afraid to be around you. Just as each person's cancer treatment is individualized, so is the coping strategy. Ideas to try:. What comforted you through rough times before your cancer diagnosis is likely to help ease your worries now, whether that's a close friend, religious leader or a favorite activity that recharges you.
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